Sandra Patricia “Fatz” Barron Cartwright
December 4, 1957 ~ April 20, 2020
Sandra Patricia Barron Cartwright affectionately known as “Fatz”, made her royal entrance into this life on December 4, 1957 to the late William E. “Bro” Cartwright and Thelma F. Barron Cartwright. “Fatz”, was the adored baby girl to nine other siblings. She peacefully and gracefully received her eternal crown Monday April 20, 2020, on the day commemorating the celebration of her beloved departed daddy’s 103rd birthday. Her exodus from this life was the ultimate demonstration that truly defined her as a “daddy’s girl”.
“Fatz”, was born and raised in the Berkley section of Norfolk, Virginia and attended Norfolk Public Schools. As a child she attended St. Mark United Church of Christ under the leadership of the late Dr. D. P. Butts and throughout her life under the late Pastor Thomas J. Hart. She was predeceased by two sisters Bernice “Niecy” Barron, Brenda “Starr” Chesson and four brothers Leonard “Hawk” Barron, Clarence “Sir Guy” Barron, Harold “HB” Barron and Charles “Blue” Cartwright.
“Fatz” was charming, regal, clever, chic, comical, witty and simply a beautiful person both inside and out. She was well loved by all who knew and encountered her. Although, “Fatz” was a part of an already large and growing family, working in retail expanded her family even more. Many of her coworkers cherished and embraced her warm nature and dubbed her as “MA”, while her sense of humor, smile, and unique way of imposing laughter to any situation earned her the name as, “The Original Entertainer”.
“Fatz”, brilliant and creative mind allowed her to coordinate and star in many of her own hilarious comedy skits that she had written and performed for her family and friends. She hosted the best family gatherings and parties and the entertainment was the highlight of them all. She was undoubtedly the life of any party. Her mere presence would brighten the darkest of days and uplift your spirit even if hers was down. “Fatz” was a mood changer, even during her illness, she made sure everyone around her was smiling and laughing. She loved the beach and would spend countless hours enjoying the sound of the waves, the warmth of the sun and sand and the coolness of the ocean’s misty breeze. Every summer she made it a ritual to head to the beach with her infamous “care pack” which consisted of boiled eggs, a variety of sandwiches, cold fried chicken legs, cheese puffs, and plenty of drinks for the kids to stay hydrated because returning home was not on the schedule until she had soaked up all the sun and stars were in the sky. The ocean was her oasis and “happy” place.
She embodied a vault of knowledge, love, and sincere advice, and was one of the easiest people to talk to. Her laid-back personality offered a comfortable vibe making it easy for anyone to share their deepest secrets with her knowing whatever they shared was safely guard and would not be shared with anyone else. “Fatz” maintained personal and sincere relationships and friendships with many. She was truly a rare jewel to have in life.
Her love and faith in God were evident, as she accepted Him as Lord of her life and Savior of her soul. She verbally confessed her love and adoration towards Him and as her body became frail and weak, she made it known to family that she was ready to enjoy her Heavenly home!
“Fatz”, Tricia, Pat, Ma, Grandma, Sis, Auntie, Cousin, or whatever she was to you, always made sure you knew she was a real friend! She truly loved her family and believed that maintaining family unity was important. She was such a thoughtful, generous, and gentle soul; yet a funny, feisty person who loved to live, laugh, joke and enjoy herself. One motto she held firmly to was “No Fool No Fun”, and she had a way of expressing her joy while convincing others to join her.
She leaves to cherish her memories as her torch continues to brightly burn in the hearts of her children LyNard E. Barron (Janelle) of Richmond, VA; LaTicia N. Barron and LaVarr A. Barron both of Chesapeake, VA; her grandchildren, great grand-children, her goddaughter Dannyelle Skinner of Georgia, three beautiful sisters Thelma E. Taylor of Norfolk, VA; Gracie C. Butts of Chesapeake, VA; and Joyce B. Gardner of Chesapeake, VA; an adopted son Darrell Stokes of Chesapeake, VA; and a strong supportive tribe of nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, extended family and coworkers.
FAREWELL TO OUR QUEEN!!!
A PHENOMENAL WOMAN!!!
#SheFoughtSheWon
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LaShawn A Gray says
April 23, 2020 at 10:51 amAuntie,
You were definitely one of a kind such a lively and beautiful person. I am truly going to miss everything about you and who you were to me! But I am assured by my faith and belief in God, just as you had, I’ll see you again! I am honored to have been one of your niece’s. Such a PHENOMENAL woman physically gone but will forever be in my heart and thoughts. Your legacy of love and laughter will always be remembered.
Grace & Peace
Your Niece
LaShawn aka “Shoney”
Gracie Butts says
April 23, 2020 at 11:28 amNo more pain Sister, rest until we are united. I will love you for ever and ever.
Shavondra Hankieson says
April 25, 2020 at 10:06 amRest Easy Ms. Tricia. Remembering my childhood days out WP. You always kept a smile on. You will truly be missed.
#BDAY TWIN
Michelle Daughtry says
April 23, 2020 at 12:29 pmWishing condolences to the family, be encourage cherish the memories.
Dennis Taylor says
April 23, 2020 at 1:01 pmRest well young lady you’re a beautiful woman always know i learned a lot from you much love dip
Jayquan Taylor says
April 23, 2020 at 3:00 pmMay your beautiful, loving, and caring soul Rest In Peace my love. Until we meet again I love you. ❤️????
Crystal Barron says
April 23, 2020 at 1:16 pmRest my beautiful aunt until we meet again you are forever in my heart I love you.
Rayquan “Twin” Taylor says
April 23, 2020 at 1:55 pmRest In Peace my beautiful auntie. I’m so glad I was able to fly home this past summer and Christmas to bask in your presence. I’ll never forget hugging you and you always saying “you and your twin have a smile just like my brothers.” Hearing that always made me smile because HB was our guy!! Watch over your family from heaven and watch over me in California. You would have absolutely loved the beaches out here. Forever in my heart!! Love you forever!
Vicky Porter says
April 24, 2020 at 7:47 pmJoyce I am so sorry to hear about Fats .Praying for you and your Entire Family .Pray that God give you strength to go through this journey in Jesus Name .
Wanza Sutton Dodson. says
April 23, 2020 at 2:01 pmA smile that I will not forget. She always was available to give me and any of my many family members a loving and helping hand. I’m shedding tears as I write this but I know she is happy and at rest with her other family members.
Joyce Gardner says
April 23, 2020 at 2:52 pmI have suffered a lot of family lost. But this one is heavy. But I know I can do all things through Christ because he will be my strength. We have come to the end of the road Sis see you later!!! Tears!!!
Linnette Coley says
April 24, 2020 at 7:33 amWeeping may endure for a night but Joy comes in the morning! Auntie/Fatz I will miss you but I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU. I am tremendously thankful to God for blessing us with such a beautiful gift wrapped up in the body of Sandra Patricia Barron aka Linda/FATZ. Thank you my sweet aunt for all the lessons you taught me and all the times you carried me through the rough spots. You were one of my BIGGEST cheerleaders in everything I did and I thank you for that! To my family WE GOT THIS TOGETHER!!!! Lynard, Tisha and Boss stick together and live, laugh and love!!! May God continue to bless and keep us all! Fatz until we meet again…. LOVE YOU FOREVER MISSY
LaVerne Peebles Barron says
April 24, 2020 at 1:43 pmApril 24, 2020
The memory of your smile and kindness will remain in my heart always. God Blessed you with a beautiful soul and Heaven is smiling upon you. Peace and Love.
SYLVIA JOHNSON says
April 24, 2020 at 4:32 pmi am so sorry for your Loss RIP.
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