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Ronald “Ron” Durr


Sunrise: June 19, 1970

Sunset: September 3, 2024

Ronald “Ron” Durr, 54, passed away unexpectedly on September 3, 2024, at Norfolk General Hospital in Norfolk, Virginia. Born on June 19, 1970, in Mound Bayou, Mississippi. Ron graduated with Academic Honors from Kettering High School in 1988. In 1991, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy as an Information Systems Technician (IT), where he reached the rank of Chief Petty Officer. After 20 years and 11 months, Ronald retired his anchors. Shortly after retirement, Ronald decided to further his education as an IT by enrolling in ECPI, where he obtained his bachelor’s degree and certifications, such as Security+, and Cisco Certified Network Associate (CCNA). This led to his position as the IT Supervisor for the Hampton Roads Regional Jail, where he worked until March 28, 2024, when its doors closed. Although the jail closed, Ronald was then re-hired part-time until his untimely passing.

Ronald dedicated his life to Christ and became a member of Bread of Life Ministry on September 2, 2012. He recently began his journey as a deacon and was the treasurer for the men’s group Back In Spot. He also enjoyed working on computers, listening to old-school music, fixing things, and watching the Detroit Lions. Ronald was a member of the bike club Tearing Roads Up (TRU), in which he was known as “2 Words” because he rarely spoke. Two things that helped shape Ronald’s life were the Chief’s Mess and His Bike Club.

Ronald leaves behind his wife, Stacey L Ancar, whom he met in August of 2009 and dated until they wed on February 24, 2018. Children: D’Angelo Durr, Tymar Hubbard-Durr, DeAnna Durr and Elodie Meador. Bonus Son Michael L Ancar Jr. Mother, Catherine Pursley; siblings Harold “Shaun” Durr and Torie (Jermaine) Woods; grandchildren; Amare, Layla, and Zuri. He also leaves behind a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, extended family, and friends.

He is preceded in death by his sister, Nakia “Baby Girl” Durr-Whitney. Ronald will be remembered for his strength, willingness to help others, and kindness. His legacy will endure in the memories of those who knew and loved him.

Viewing: Monday, September 23, 2024 2:00 PM to 6:00 PM Metropolitan Funeral Service 5606 Portsmouth Boulevard Portsmouth, Virginia Graveside Service: Tuesday, September 24, 2024 1:00 PM Albert G. Horton Veterans Cemetery 5310 Milners Road Suffolk, Virginia

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    Tina Meador says

    Elodie and I are very sorry for your loss.

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    Altheria g seals says

    Prayers of comfort entire family .

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    Altheria g seals says

    Prayers of comfort entire family . gale

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    Arndray Battle says

    Memories from our service together on the Mount Whitney may the Lord receive you to glory

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    Shanika says

    Praying for strength for my friend Stacey, I remember when you first started dating Ron. Him telling me not to fix his food too spicy, lol. Keeping you and the family in my thoughts and prayers.

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    Billie DeMary says

    My brother from another mother.. I bless God for the opportunity to serve with you. You never knew the impact you made in my life.. ” I except God….”. Thank you for the blessing of getting to know you.
    Gone and never Forgotten,
    Your Sister always
    Bj

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    Altheria seals says

    Prayers comfort entire Durr family . Love Gale

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    Iola White says

    September 22, 2024 at 8:42 pm

    To the Durr Family:

    Ron was a professional and expert in his craft. I enjoyed working with him at the Hampton Roads Regional Jail. Even through the jail is closed, the memories of our co-workers are everlasting. Prayers of comfort and support during this time period and after. Iola White, Former Co-Worker

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    Eric D Jones from Detroit. says

    My homie. I can’t believe I am writing this even though I knew you were in failing health. I enjoyed every minute of our friendship Especially going to Lions games in Detroit and in Baltimore and watching them together on TV. You Were very uplifting during my last days of employment at the Hampton Roads Regional Jail. It was a Tumultuous end for me and you were a calming force for me. I think of you every time I watch the Lions play and it’s only fitting that you be buried in that jersey because you love the team dearly. From one, Chief Petty Officer to another Fair-winds and following sea.

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    Chanell says

    Latonya, DeAnna, DeAngelo, and Tymar I send my deepest condolences to you on the loss of your loved one. Know that I am praying for you all and Ron’s family.

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    Colonel W. J. Anderson says

    “Affectionately known as Ron to all of us, he was much more than just a coworker. Ron’s sharp wit, intelligence, and humor made even the toughest days a bit brighter. His dedication to service at Hampton Roads Regional Jail was nothing short of remarkable, and the impact of his contributions cannot be overstated. Ron was not only a highly respected professional but also a cherished friend to many. His absence will be deeply felt by everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. During this difficult time, our hearts and prayers are with Ron’s entire family. We will always remember the joy, laughter, and unwavering commitment he brought to our workplace.”

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    Nina, Lisa & Dion from Detroit says

    Kitty, Teo, Shawn, his beautiful children and the entire Durr family: We’re sending our prayers and condolences from Detroit on the untimely passing of Ronald. Love you!

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    Terry Walker says

    My condolences to the family.

    Ron you were a great co worker at HRRJ. You were a funny, gracious and especially strong fighter, having stayed working when most wouldn’t have. I’m glad that I got to work with you and you will be dearly missed.

    You can rest easy now.

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    Michael Rhone says

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