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Phyllis G. Alexander


Sunrise: February 17, 1958

Sunset: March 17, 2023

The world became brighter place on February 17, 1958 when Phyllis Alexander was born to Alfred and Marjorie Green in Brooklyn, New York.  Phyllis passed away surrounded by loved ones after a battle with Cancer on March 17, 2023.

Always the go getter, Phyllis was an exceptional student and valedictorian of her 6th grade elementary school graduation class.  While attending Junior H.S. she skipped one full grade level!

Taught by her mother, Phyllis was an exceptional seamstress attending the prestigious HS of Fashion Industries. Phyllis had a goal of attending the Fashion Institute Of Technology but changed  course and joined the United States Army in 1979.  There she met and married in 1983  the love of her life and the man of her dreams Chris Alexander!

Phyllis retired from Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) in 2018 as a GS-12 Investigator.

Phyllis was a mentor to several friends, colleagues and relatives.  She had a strong leadership personality while always showing love and understanding.  She was a dedicated wife and loving partner.

Phyllis leaves behind her husband Chris Alexander and her sister Lois Green. Phyllis  was predeceased by her parents and her sisters Alfreda Compton (Green), Leslie Green. She also leaves behind nephew Randy Green and wife Tamara Green (Golston) , nieces Monique Green, Jasmine Green, Sanai Green nephews Terrell Still and Cameron Green, Great niece Mckenzi Green , Great nephew Kanen Spicer , and a host of family, friends , and other relatives.

 

Viewing Wednesday, March 22, 2023 2:00pm - 6:00pm Metropolitan Funeral Service 5605 Portsmouth Boulevard Portsmouth, VA 23701 Service COME IN PERSON OR WATCH LIVE ONLINE Thursday, March 23, 2023 11:00am Metropolitan Funeral Service Portsmouth Chapel Interment Albert G. Horton Veteran Cemetery 5310 Milners Road Suffolk, VA 23434

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    Angela R Blue says

    Chris, we are so saddened to hear of the passing of your wife, Phyllis. We are holding you high in our thoughts and prayers during what is undoubtedly such a difficult time.

    Sending our love,

    Angela, Pat, Annabelle and Arlo of River Crescent

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      Marilyn says

      Chris, I am feeling the loss of Phyllis, my closet and dearest friend. I know what you feel is much greater because that is half of your soul. Know that I’m praying for you and everyone in the family. I’m always here for you. God took an Angel from this earth and now she is no longer in pain. We were blessed to be by her beside when she left this earth and I hope that brings you a little comfort. Rest in peace, Phyllis.

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      Dean & Shelia Jones says

      Chris, our hearts were saddened to hear about your beautiful wife, Phyllis. May you and your family memories find comfort and peace during this difficult time.
      Sending our deepest condolences.
      Dean and Shelia Jones

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    Brad Bangel says

    Chris – Please know that we are thinking of you in this most difficult time. Keeping you in our prayers and thoughts. We never had the opportunity to meet Phyllis, yet knowing you, there is no doubt in my mind that she was a wonderful person as well…

    Brad & Babbi of Riverpoint…

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      Sheri Knecht says

      Oh Chris, I’m so sorry. Your love for your wife was heartwarming. I remember your smiling bright face when talking about vacations with her (and her luggage!). I’m grateful she longer has to deal with illness, but that doesn’t help the hole you must feel in your heart. You and your family are in our prayers. Sending love and peace. We miss you, Sheri and Judd Knecht (previously 6049 Newport Ave)

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    Mariah and Ethan says

    Chris, Our hearts are breaking for you. While you always seem to have a smile with a twinkle, it seemed to be even bigger and brighter when we’d see you on the phone with Phyllis. Wishing you peace.

    – Mariah and Ethan of Riverpoint

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    Sharon Sadr says

    Chris, we are so sad to hear of your loss. You are a very special man who has touched many hearts in the community. We hope that God will help you through these very hard times, and we are here if we can help you in any way.
    Our prayers are with you,
    Sharon and Hooman Sadr of Riverpoint

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    Adrian says

    Chris,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. We are here if you need anything.

    Adrian and Katy of Riverpoint

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    Gail L Savage says

    Chris,
    Our hearts are with you and all your family. You are the sunny spot in our lives as we are sure Phyllis was in yours. All our best wishes.
    Toy and Gay Savage

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    Bob Holden says

    Dear Chris, we were so sorry to hear this news. We are praying for you and your family. Please receive our deepest condolences. The Holden-Villars family.

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    Susan Pilato says

    Chris,
    Vince and I were heartbroken when we heard the news about Phyllis. You are in our hearts and deepest thoughts during this difficult time. As I read Phyllis’s obituary – I see that we share the same birthday of February 17th and my father’s was March 17th. Also – my maiden name is Compton. I see much connection with Phyllis and so wish I could have met her. Take care of you, my friend, Susan

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    Novaks says

    ❤️

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    Your Friends Chris and Robin says

    Chris, We are so sorry over the loss of your beautiful wife and best friend. We hope you are able to maintain your positive attitude. An attitude that lights up Riverpoint on a daily basis. Even though we moved we are glad you are still in our lives. We know rain and snow and even biting dogs were not able to change your indomitable personality and we pray for you and your family. ..

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    Chris and Robin's Grandson says

    I am sorry to hear of your wives passing, I am here for you as you were for me since the day I was born 15 years ago.
    Nicholas

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    Sheri Knecht says

    Oh Chris, I’m so sorry. Your love for your wife was heartwarming. I remember your smiling bright face when talking about vacations with her (and her luggage!). I’m grateful she longer has to deal with illness, but that doesn’t help the hole you must feel in your heart. You and your family are in our prayers. Sending love and peace. We miss you, Sheri and Judd Knecht (previously 6049 Newport Ave)

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    James Golston says

    Phyllis was the light in the room, we now must carry her light in our hearts. My prayer is for her soul to rest with our Lord and Savior, and for Chris to find the strength and courage to carry on.

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    Tom Bartosh says

    Chris,
    Dave and I are so saddened to hear of your family’s loss. Prayers for all of you during this difficult time. Please accept our deepest condolences.

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    Dillard says

    Chris,
    May God’s perfect peace and comfort surround you at this time of great loss. Phyllis sounds like such a beautiful person, just the right complement to your bright and cheerful personality.
    Elizabeth and I are praying for you.
    Dillard & Elizabeth

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    Shawn Frye says

    So sorry for your loss.

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    Randy,& Tamara Green says

    Aunt Phyllis We will miss your voice, wisdom ,smile and loving spirit!
    Uncle Chris we are here for you always and forever.

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