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Ocia O. Whitmore


Sunrise: November 15, 1950

Sunset: January 25, 2025

Ocia Ola Evans Whitmore entered into eternal rest, unexpectedly, after a brief illness, on Saturday, January 25, 2025, at the age of 74. Her life was a testament to kindness, strength, and devotion to her family and friends.

Born on Wednesday, November 15, 1950, in Elizabeth City, North Carolina, to Ambrose and Margaret Evans, Ocia spent her early years surrounded by the love of her siblings and family. She graduated from P.W Moore High School. She retired from USUI International in 2006 as a Technical Engineer.

Alphonza Whitmore and Ocia Evans met at a baseball game. Enamored by one another, Ocia married the love of her life, Alphonza Whitmore Jr., on August 27, 1977. Together, they raised their two sons, Alphonza Whitmore III and Brian Whitmore, along with their grandchildren, Aaliyah and Sterling Whitmore. She was a devoted mother and grandmother, always putting them first. She was always willing to be their confidant and provide guidance to her children.

She walked in faith as a member of the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses, Greenbrier Congregation. She shared her faith with those who were open and supported the door-to-door ministry. 

She deeply enjoyed sewing, gardening, shopping, watching Judge Judy, and collecting bells and aprons. She shared her hobbies with her grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. Spending time with her close friends and family can be seen as her passion, speaking regularly with each of them. For those who know her, she was always fashion-forward, from the top of her head to the sole of her feet. Not only did she dress herself up, but delighted in dressing her children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and others when given the opportunity to support them by attending various engagements and other events. All while being a food connoisseur truly moved her through and through causing her to dance with joy.

Ocia was preceded in death by her father, Ambrose Evans, Jr.,  and mother, Margaret Evans. She leaves to cherish her loving husband, Alphonza Whitmore Jr.; sons, Alphonza Whitmore III and Brian E. Whitmore; grandchildren, Aaliyah R. Whitmore and Sterling E. Whitmore; sisters, Silowetta Deloatch and Claudenette (Mikki) Evans; mother-in-law, Dorothy Whitmore, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins. Special friend, Barabra Harris.

Ocia will be deeply missed, but her memory will forever live on in the hearts of those who loved her.

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    Benita says

    My sincere condolences to you Alfonso and your family. ♥️♥️

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      Howard & Rita says

      Keep your head up and always remember that God is in control and He always know best. Friend forever….Howard

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    Phyllis Sherrill says

    To Alfonzo and his family, we the Custis,Sherrill’s and Stancil families,are sending our condolences to let you know that we are here for you and your family(your extended families). May GOD wrap his arms around you doing this most difficult time, LOVE Phyllis Sherrill.

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    P. Sherrill says

    To Alfonzo and his family, we the Custis,Sherrill’s and Stancil families,are sending our condolences to let you know that we are here for you and your family(your extended families). May GOD wrap his arms around you doing this most difficult time, LOVE Phyllis Sherrill.

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      Lisa Thompson says

      Phonza, my deepest condolences to you and your family. I pray for your comfort and peace in these difficult days.

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    LaVerne Hurdle says

    To The Whitmore Family Sorry for the loss of Ocia. You all have my Deepest Sympathy. Keep your hands in Gods hands, LaVerne Hurdle

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    Yvette Seymore says

    Ocia was my 2nd cousin. I am grateful for years of memories. Her infectious laughter and warm smile will always be appreciated.

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      Milton and Marian Harrell says

      Alphonso so sorry to hear of the passing of Ocia. Condolences to you and all the family.
      Milton and Marian Harrell
      (Jeep)

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    Larriale Isiah says

    Cousin Ocia was the sweetest person you ever want to meet. She always brought a smile to my face whenever I see her. She was such a pleasant person. My condolences and love go out to Cousin Alphonza Sr, Alphonza Jr., and Brian. Love you all

    Larriale Isiah

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    Marilyn (cookie) Green says

    My prayers, and condolences to the Whitemore family. May Ocia rest in heavenly peace. ❤️🙏

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      Vanisha says

      Condolences to Mr Whitmore from your Homewood Suites family, we are truly sadden to hear about your loss .We will forever remember Mrs.Whitmore. It was a joy to sit and talk to you both daily. The both of you always kept us smiling. Just know we are always here and you are always apart of us. We love you Mr Whitmore. Your Homewood Family

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        Wanda and James Stallworth says

        To the Whitmore Family. May the God of comfort be with you during this time. Jehovah loves Ocia as we all love her. She was such a a faithful servant and good friend. May your memories also bring you comfort as well. Ocia was a beautiful friend to my sister Barbara Harris and felt as a member of our family. Praying for your peace. ” He will wipe all tears from your eyes…” Revelation 21:4

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          Alice Seymore says

          My deepest condolences and prayers to the family
          for strength, comfort, peace I’m so sorry.I feel your pain and hurt. Hold on and keep the Faith. ♥️🙏🏽🌹

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      Exum Lee Jr says

      Sorry for the loss of your love Ocia.. may God give you strength to endure

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      Claude E. Chavis Jr. says

      To Fonz and his family, Jean and I would like to extend our deepest and sincere condolences. Our prayers are with you. You were a support and friend for me when I needed it most. May God continue to provide healing and comfort.

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    Cynthia Wills says

    Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort as you remember your loved one during this difficult time. Stay strong and allow God’s love to cover the sting of her untimely death.

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      Kathy Cooper says

      To the Whitmore family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God bless you always. Kathy Cooper and family.

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    Kiara S. says

    May God comfort you all and fill you with His peace. I am thankful for the opportunity to have known Aunt OC – from getting to experience her infectious joy (like how she’d hum and dance while making a sandwich in a way that made you want to join in on the party), to tagging along when she and my mom went out to eat, to our phone chats – and for the decades of friendship she and my mom have shared. She had a way of making you feel special and loved. She will be deeply missed.

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    Muriel P. Barefield says

    Alphonza and family, I extend my deepest condolences to you and your family. My prayers go out to each of you. May God bring you comfort whenever you think of your beloved Ocia.

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      Lafayette Armstrong says

      It’s going to get better my borther!! Sorry for your lost GODSPEED ALWAYS.

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    Yvette Smith says

    My friend, my friend, how dare you leave me. You promised that we would laugh and laugh for years to come from our simple endeavors. Only you could make an outing of Golden Corral, a movie and a trip to Walmart an adventure.
    I’ve lost count on how many times you and Fonza literally “saved” me. I promise from here on, as you would so often tell me, to put on my “big girl ____” and keep it moving in your absence. To the family, I honestly feel your pain.

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    Carl and Dianne Collins says

    Our prayers and condolences to the family. So sorry for your loss. I pray that God will give you comfort that you need as time goes by.
    God bless you all.❤️🙏🏽

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    Alice Seymore says

    My deepest condolences and prayers to the family
    for strength, comfort, peace I’m so sorry.I feel your pain and hurt. Hold on and keep the Faith. ♥️🙏🏽🌹

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    Otha S Cannady says

    To Alfonzo and family
    So sorry for the loss of your wife and mother of your children. I know that this may be a difficult time for you but just be aware that she is with you always in your heart and soul till you see each other again in the presence of the lord. May god bless you and the family always.

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    Jill Price & Family says

    To Alfonzo and Family:
    Sincere love, prayers and condolences are extended to each and all of you at this most difficult time. “Ocie,” as many of us called her, and I go way back to our childhood days in Elizabeth City, NC. Though we were apart for years, we were always good friends, and were thrilled to get back together when I moved to Chsapeake, VA in 2021. We shared many serious and fun times together that I will never forget. Her death has truly crushed my heart, but I look forward to our grand reunion in Paradise when she will awaken once again. Rev. 21:3-5

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    Jennell Johnson says

    Sending my love and prayers to the Whitmore family! I pray God brings strength and understanding at this time. Continue to live with her memories forever in your hearts! With Love from Charlotte,
    Jennell and Family❤️

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    Kenneth & Versie Bly says

    When my husband put his phone on the table and turned to me what his lips said and the far away look in his eyes spoke volumes about the affect that Ocia kind and concerning ways had made on his life. It was Ocia as I was told that called the EMT’S when all the guys that was playing cards last year and my husband began to show symptoms of a stroke, she insisted that they call the EMT to check him out. After all he was in her home and I would’ve done the same if it was you Fonza! RIP Ocia you will truly be missed! The Blys

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      Ronnie Holmes says

      our deepest condolences and prayers to you phonso and family from the holmes family Dawn Sariyah and Ronnie

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      Ronnie Holmes says

      we are so sorry for your lost phonso and family from the holmes family Dawn Sariyah and Ronnie

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    Sheila Tyler says

    My. Condolences to a very sweet person that I’m so glad to have worked with I will miss you Ocia

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    Chadbe Ward says

    My deepest condolences and prayers to you Mr. Whitmore (classmate) and family. She was a true definition of a jewel and will definitely be missed.

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    Regina Majette says

    So sorry for your loss! Praying the family will find the strength and solace they need at such a time like this 🙏🏾🙏🏾

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    Barry Thompson says

    Cuzzo you will truly be missed. I will forever remember the pool and card parties. The epitome of family fun. You leave behind a great legacy that will accomplish many things and break barriers.

    Thank you for being you. Love you cuzzo. Rest in heaven

    Barry Thompson

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    Linda C Johnson says

    I had the pleasure of meeting Ocie many years ago through our mutual friend, Rosie. For a few years, Ocie and I collaborated to trace her North Carolina roots. This was long before the rise of DNA testing and its widespread use in ancestry research. Throughout our interactions, Ocie was always a joy to be around. Her warm smile and friendly wave never failed to brighten my day whenever we crossed paths. My heartfelt condolences go out to her family and friends during this difficult time.

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    Denise, Sister, and Gina (Oklahoma) says

    We had the pleasure of being around Ocie and playing cards while having fun, we are so sorry for your loss, she will be missed by all that knew her, I hope you know that she is with the Angels in Heaven. We love ❤️ and miss you Fonzie !! Love Denis, Sister, Gina Oklahoma Crew

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    Evelyn Ashburn says

    To Alfonzo and the Whitmore Family. You all have our deepest condolences and prayers in the loss of Ocie. With love from Evelyn and Shelton Ashburn and Gwen and Marshall Spencer.❤️🙏🏽

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    Evelyn Ashburn says

    To Alfonzo and the Whitmore Family. You all have our deepest condolences and prayers in the loss of Ocie. With love from Evelyn and Shelton Ashburn and Gwen and Marshall Spencer.

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    Evelyn Ashburn says

    To Alfonzo and the Whitmore Family,
    You all have our deepest condolences and prayers in the loss of Ocie. May God’s comfort and peace be with you during this difficult time.
    With love from Evelyn and Shelton Ashburn and Gwen and Marshall Spencer.

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