James R. Fayton Sr. who was affectionately known as “Ray” transitioned into eternal rest with his wife and family at his side on September 19, 2022. Ray was born on March 12, 1951, in Norfolk, VA to the late Sister Audrey Mae Hammond and raised by the late Deacon James Hammond.
He married the love of his life Carolyn E. Lee 41 years ago. He leaves a legacy of two children, James R. Fayton, Jr. and Chelsea J. Fayton. Ray attended Norfolk Public Schools, where he later worked and retired after over 25 years of service. He was a member of CrownLyfe Ministries, which became his “first love,” and remained faithful to the ministry until the very end.
Deacon Fayton was a dedicated community leader and member of the LSR League where he held many positions. Most recently he held the positions of President & Coach. Ray lived a philosophy of “Let Your Actions Speak Louder Than Your Words.”
He was preceded in death by his parents: Deacon James E. Hammond and Sister Audrey Hammond. He leaves to cherish his memory his wife, Carolyn E. Fayton, a son, James (Tynesha) Fayton Jr., a daughter, Chelsea J. Fayton, (10) siblings, Edward (Joyce) Hammond, Sheila (Douglas) Hopkins, Jeanette (Sherwood) Moore, Christopher Hammond, Julie (James) Braxton, Dennis (Barbara) Hammond, Kevin (Gwen) Hammond, Trina Rodgers, Precious Bady-Mayo, Princess Bady-Bannister (3) grandchildren, James Fayton III, Diamond Fayton, Jaylen Fayton; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
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Linda Holliman says
September 21, 2022 at 7:45 pmOur condolences and prayers for the family
We loved our Dear Cousin Ray Ray
Tonya Burnett says
September 21, 2022 at 9:14 pmOur prayers are with the family as we celebrate James and mourn his passing. He will live on in our hearts. Love the Kelly Family and the Hammond Family.
RICKY TYRONE BUTLER says
September 22, 2022 at 11:02 amGod bless the family at this time of great loss. Titustown friend for ever.
Jean Mallory says
September 22, 2022 at 11:30 pmMy thoughts and prayers are with you Chelsey and your family. 🙏
Jean Mallory
Tamika & Kymani Smith says
September 23, 2022 at 9:11 amMy Deepest Condolences to The Fayton Family. Mr. J (as my daughter affectionately calls him) had been her assistant several times, and he was like family to us. I Thank him for Loving, Guiding, and Treating her as his own. Praying for your Strength, Comfort and Understanding.
Michelle Wills says
September 23, 2022 at 9:31 pmMr. Fayton was a wonderful man of God. He will truly be missed. I’m praying for God’s comfort over his family and friends.
Toysha White says
September 26, 2022 at 11:08 amMr. Fayton was a good man very meek and mild mannered my friend to the end! He told me a few weeks ago you will always be my friend. You will be missed. prayers to family and friends.
Nina Bellamy says
September 27, 2022 at 9:30 pmI would like to extend sincere and heart felt condolences to my dear cousin Carolyn Fayton, and my sweet little cousin Chelsea, to the Lee family, the Fayton family and the Hammond family. I love you guys so much and I am truly praying for your strength in your time of bereavement. It is my prayer that God surround your heart with His love and shower you with His peace….like only He can. May He rock you in the cradle of His arms and hold you close to His bosom with His nailed scared hands. I know it hurts right now, but God has you in His care and as the days go by, the pain will slowly diminish. Hold on to God’s hand because it’s unchanging. God bless each you and may heaven smile upon you.
Crystal Simons-Waters says
September 28, 2022 at 8:05 amSending my dearest sympathy to Chelsea and Family. Every time I was in his presence he made me laugh! He will be missed! May God continue to bless and give the Fayton family the strength and peace you may need during your time of bereavement. Eddie, Crystal and Chris Waters 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Debra Walker says
September 28, 2022 at 8:42 amSending condolences to the family. May God comfort you during this difficult time. I worked with “Ray” at NPS and, he was always a wonderful person to talk to. He will truly be missed.
Tiffany Tyson ( Bland ) says
September 28, 2022 at 1:21 pmMr. Fayton was my favorite person to see back in elementary school . My condolences to the family .
Kimberly Tharpe says
September 28, 2022 at 3:32 pmI would like to send my heart
felt condolences to my friend Mrs. Carol Fayton and Family my prayer and Blessing to all 🙏🖤
Harold D Woodley says
September 29, 2022 at 2:09 pmMy deepest sympathies and condolences to James’ wife, children and all of his family. May the comfort and consolation of the Holy Spirit be upon all who mourn his passing. My prayers are with you.
Laverne & Robert Sellers says
September 29, 2022 at 6:36 pmMy deepest condolences and sympathy to Pastor Jay , and the Fayton family may God continue to strengthen you
Aunt Edna & Family says
September 30, 2022 at 12:24 amOur family sends our condolences to all of you during this very difficult time.
Love
Aunt Edna, Debra, Will,
CW &Mike
Corey Thompson says
September 30, 2022 at 2:14 pmGonna miss the circle and our basketball conversations. Until we meet again my friend. I know you’re happy in your Father’s house, RIP
Julian J Barlow III says
September 30, 2022 at 2:44 pmMy heartfelt condolences to the family, Ray and I shared times at work and off the job that I will always cherish. He had charisma and spoke his mind. Rest easy my Brother!!
Pearlie Kelly says
September 30, 2022 at 8:41 pmCondolences to the family. So sorry for your loss.
Helen Long says
October 1, 2022 at 1:11 amSending prayers and condolences to the Fayton and Hammond families. May God comfort and keep you .
Sandra Deadwyler says
October 1, 2022 at 9:21 amMy prayers go out to the family. I am going to miss my old buddy. God has a purpose that has a plan. My brother will be missed
Samiya Sanderson and Family says
October 1, 2022 at 9:22 amOur condolences go out to the Fayton family. This is definitely a great loss to the community. Coach Fayton was always there to look out for my boys and daughter when they were playing LSR football and basketball. He was a wonderful person to talk to, and always made you feel welcomed as if you were his personal family. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. May God continue to give you the strength that you need to get through this difficult time.Coach Fayton will greatly be missed.
Samiya Sanderson and Family
Derek Williams says
October 1, 2022 at 10:24 amMy prayers go out to the family. I’m going to miss one of my good friends !!!
Sylvia Woodley says
October 1, 2022 at 1:56 pmMy deepest condolences and prayers to the Fayton family. May God give you the strength you need in this time of sadness.
Kevin and Janet Harris says
October 1, 2022 at 2:18 pmWe are sending prayers and condolences to Carol and family. We will truly miss Ray.
Doniqka Banks says
October 1, 2022 at 3:57 pmMy prayers and condolences to the Fayton and Hammond family. I worked with Mr Ray at norview high school back in 06-07 he was a very nice guy and kept it real. He will be missed..🙏
Ryan Williams says
October 1, 2022 at 4:14 pmJames was a good guy and an awesome friend. He will truly be missed!
Carolyn Cage, Dionne May --Norfolk Public Schools says
October 4, 2022 at 8:36 pmWe were so shocked to hear of Mr. Fayton’s passing. He was a blessing to our program as a job coach and advocate for students with significant support needs. He helped launch new programs that gave our students new opportunities that they might not otherwise have. We count it a privilege and a blessing to have known and worked with him. Our prayers go out to the family for comfort and strength in the days ahead, knowing he left a powerful legacy. Peace.
Mrs. Okafor (Urquhart) says
October 5, 2022 at 10:03 amChelsea & Family,
Cherish your memories of Mr. Fayton. Treasure the time spent with your dad!
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