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Esley P. Smith


Sunrise: September 21, 1975

Sunset: March 19, 2020

Esley Smith was born on September 21, 1975 in Nassawadox, VA and was called home on March 19, 2020 in Virginia Beach, VA at the age of 44.

He was raised in Ewing Township, New Jersey and graduated from Ewing High School. Esley proudly served over 24 years in the United States Navy, as an Aviation Boatswain’s Mate (ABHC). He was a faithful member of Calvary Revival Church (Norfolk) and served on the Student and Family Team.

He was a loving son to his mother, Doreica (Carldell), supportive husband of six years, to Jannell and a beloved father to his six children, Cameron, Jaylen, Sydney, Kenneth, Lauryn, and Esley Jr.  He was a caring son-in-law to Terrence (Loleta) Douglas Sr. and Katrice Green. A brother-in-law to Jada, Terrence Jr, Torrie, Terrell, Tia, Talia, and Trenton, and an uncle to Tyler.  He also leaves a host of family and friends to cherish his memories.

Viewing Friday, April 3, 2020 4:00pm - 8:00pm Metropolitan Funeral Service 7246 Granby Street Norfolk, VA 23505 Service WATCH SERVICE LIVE ONLINE Saturday, April 4, 2020 11:00am Metropolitan Funeral Service Granby Chapel Interment Albert G. Horton Veteran's Cemetery 5310 Milners Road Suffolk, VA 23434 The family is following the CDC and State of Virginia guidelines for funeral attendance.

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    Tonya Jones says

    When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.

    Love Ya!

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      Kristy Nixon says

      I love you Esley!! You are no longer in pain and can now rest. Navy Chief! Navy Pride!

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    Kim Higgs says

    In the very short time that I knew Esley he was such a good man to have met. He had a unique love for kids especially the children in God’s Krew. A lot of men are not like that especially for kids with special needs. Being one of the last volunteers to be a part of the Krew I’m gonna miss him just coming up checking on the kids. The last time I saw him he had come up just to check to see how the kids were doing.

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    Maggie Holley says

    All I can do is shake my head. I remember when he was born. His mother and I as well as other friends grew up together. Her losing her son hits us hard. Condolences to the family. God bless.

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    Peggy Wedgest-Land says

    My condolences to you Dorieca and the family, I will continue to pray for comfort and strength for you all.

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    Yolanda says

    Sending live and prayers to the family????????????

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    Beionca Kass says

    Condolences to Jannell and my babies. You guys all have my deepest sympathies. I love y’all

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      Linda Taylor says

      My heart goes out to rhe family. God bless and comfort you all during this difficult time.

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    Carol Dillard Suber says

    Pinky, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I remember Phelamon as high spirited child playing with my nieces and nephews, then growing into a compassionate young man. My prayers and condolences are extended to you and your family.

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      Maggie says

      Condolences to the family.

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    Esther Darlene Greenfield-Pinkard says

    My heart is saddened that one I claimed as my own Son has parted this World way to soon. Esley Phelamon ‘Flame’ Smith as a child played and ruff housed with my two sons just as Brothers do! I watched from afar as ‘Flame’ excelled in His Career choice, Manhood and Father Extraordinaire. As any proud Mama I beamed with pride whenever His Mother, Dorecia my treasured friend shared yet another one of ‘Flame’s Accolades. I send my sincere deepest condolences to His Family & May My Darling Esley P. ‘Flame’ Smith Rest in Eternal Peace!!!

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    Debra Choice says

    Praying that God’s loving presence will surround you and your family with peace and comfort during this difficult time.

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    Tasha says

    Rest easy my brother …prayers to the family

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    Alphonso says

    The pain is over brother. Now it’s eternity in his glory. You will be missed and always loved.

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    Aves Ruffin-Justis says

    My prayers go out to Jannell, Pinky and “Philamon’s” children and other family members. No matter where we are in the world, we are still The Mt. Sinai Gospel Tabernacle family.

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    Tonya Gardner says

    Sending prayers and strength to the family Jane you and the kids are in my prayers.

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    Branch Family says

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. I miss you Bro.

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    Patricia Williams says

    My heart goes out to the family. Please accept our deepest condolences. Your beautiful smile will be missed but your star will always shine bright. Love you Greg and Pat Williams.

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    Shavonne Ruffin says

    The last time I saw you I knew something wasn’t quite right, but you never said a word. I’m going to miss you as you were like a big brother always annoying me, making sure that I was doing what’s right. I am remembering all the times in our youth we hung out and laughed on the Busy Bee Choir and at Aunt Phyllis’ house. My diary is filled with all those hilarious times! I will miss you a lot. Love you!

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    Anthony R Sanders says

    My heart goes out to the family and friends. Smitty in was a great man, his smile would light up every place he went. I was a blessing and honor to serve with him onboard USS THEODORE ROOSEVELT CVN 71. May God give the family strength, comfort and courage during this time in Jesus Christ name amen. You will be missed Brother. Hand Salute, Ready two! We have the watch.

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    Karol Matthews says

    Janelle and family,
    You have my deepest sympathy! Praying for your comfort and peace!

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    Jimmie Anderson says

    One of a kind brother. Gonna miss you but I know you are up top with the most High. Prayers to those left behind but you will live thru us.

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    William Dillard says

    You where always like a little sister to me .. Very sorry about your son..

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    Jason says

    You are my brother and you will be remembered for the times we had life will always be kind to the truth about you

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    James Blackmon says

    Esley you will always be remembered for your high energy and the smiles you put on our faces this is a hard lost for us all our prayers and condolences are deep for you and your family, rest easy my brother you will never be forgotten nor will the beautiful memories you gave us all that lay within our hearts forever.

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    Brian Stuchinski says

    My prayers go out to the family. Will remember the good times we had on TR together. You will surely be missed by all who had the privilege to know you. You were one of a kind brother.

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